ebay collectin' update

[kassidy62]

Now I have "Last Night" with CKR. I just keep hoping there'll be a movie out there with him naked in it. Kind of like David Soul and his nekkid bounty, however brief the clip was, in "The Stick-Up". Now THAT was a Christmas present.

"Key to Rebecca" is coming in the mail, along with "Cannibal Women in the Avocado Jungle of Death" (thanks to one of my LJ friends who reminded me of its existence).

Okay then. So I have a friend who is male who comes over for "Girl's Night Out" which is basically Get Shit-Faced and Watch Bad Movies Night Out. AND here I am, Ms. Privacy, with my internet name, and the prick found me out. He mentioned to me he knows my internet name. I think I inadvertently sent him an email from the wrong account when I was home one day.

I WORK with this guy. It really is NONE of his business. What to do? I've had this identity for a long time, but now what? If he starts snooping around and bothers me with it, I'm going to hate him. There's really nothing to be done, is there?

And I'm not sure he found out because I sent him an email from the wrong account, either. He mailed me an apology when he got shit-faced and was rude to me. I was electrified, yes electrified, to find the apology had come over on the yahoo account. I can't remember if that was before or after my slip-up. Which would mean what, he's checking into me? Auuugh!

I know it sounds weird - we're friends at work and he's gone through some sorry shit and I feel bad about it, but I'm not sure if I can trust him with this kind of thing. I never wanted him to be into this part of my life. He doesn't belong there. Eject eject!

I think I should just stick with girls for friends. They don't try to come on to you (for the most part).

Comments

[tipitiwitchet.livejournal.com]

Holy shit! I can't believe he knows your secret identity. Now, I'm wondering if I've said anything to him that would give him any clues to the stuff we're into.

[kassidy62.livejournal.com]

no I'm sure it wasn't you. Don't worry. I just am totally aggrieved - feel like I've got my drawers down around my knees. If he's smart, he'll leave off about it.

[tipitiwitchet.livejournal.com]

If he doesn't, we keeeeeeeel him!

[kassidy62.livejournal.com]

One time he says something, the friendship is over. I won't forgive it (I mean, in front of others at work)

[tipitiwitchet.livejournal.com]

Surely, for the love of all things holy, he'll have enough sense not to say anything at your job. I mean, outing your alternate persona at work would be so far over the line that even he should be able to see it.

[kassidy62.livejournal.com]

I agree. But he may decide to hate me someday. Or get some self-destructive urge to throw away a friendship.
Working on an S&H slash site. You can see it here if you want, it's nearly done:
http://shslash.kassidyrae.com

[bayforever.livejournal.com]

Kass, I'm so sorry to read what happened to you with that "friend". I think his behaviour isn't fair at all! He was really indiscreet and tactless.
I've always been sensitive toward the respect of my privacy, so I can understand how you're feeling now.

A big hug

[kassidy62.livejournal.com]

thank you so much. I'm just mortified. You're a nice pal:)

[bayforever.livejournal.com]

Wow! A slash site!!! Being a slashy girl, I can only be happy!!! :)
Just gave a quick look, it seems wonderful! Already in my bookmarks ;)

[kassidy62.livejournal.com]

Glad you're enjoying it! Keep it under wraps for now, please? I haven't announced it yet - still a few kinks to work out:)

[kassidy62.livejournal.com]

about the slash site: Sonja did some of the art, and I did some. She's just the best. But here's the photo and page I'm currently enamoured of, see what you think:
http://kassidyrae.com/shslash/vids.html

[kassidy62.livejournal.com]

Sonja's revising some of the index page artwork and she'll probably work on the photos page (which is actually part of the SH gen site I have, but nevermind). Other than that, it's getting there.

[tipitiwitchet.livejournal.com]

Oooh! It looks lovely. You've really done a lot of work on it since I last saw it.
You're so damn good.

Secret identity?

[sjames-centre.livejournal.com]

Ok, first I find out your name isnt Kassidy, which is OK. But then I think shit shit shit, should I be using a secret identity too? Too late I guess. Started out being a big time lurker so it never occured to me.
I can only hope no one cares what I do in my spare time. And my daughter who does know, thinks I am nuts and has forbidden me to mention SH in the house ever again.

Re: Secret identity?

[kassidy62.livejournal.com]

I'm just a really private person for one thing. It's not too late for you if you want to change it, though. Just tell everyone on groups you've changed your name. They'll deal with the transition easily - after all as you said, you only recently came out of lurkdom. You're welcome to know my real name, too - it's just in my RL, I don't need people thinking I'm weirder than they already know. And it so happens that a work colleage is also a drinking buddy, which is a little unexpected mixing of my work and home life and at times more than a little of a clash.